Intimacy From the Inside Out

About this program: 

Intimacy from the Inside Out © (IFIO) is an experiential model combining intra-psychic work with interpersonal exploration. IFIO uses intimate relationships as a vehicle for growth and healing of both the individual and the couple. Developed and presented by Senior IFS Trainer and founder of IFIO, Toni Herbine-Blank, MSN, RN and Certified IFS Therapist and Senior IFIO Trainer, John Palmer, LCSW this program is designed for those who currently have a basic understanding of core IFSSM principles and want to expand their knowledge about how to apply IFS relationally.

This learning program was held live in Spring 2024.

Module 1: Introduction to the Model

In this module, you will get an overview of the model, including key concepts and theory. You will also spend some time exploring your own therapist parts.

Module 2: Getting Started with a Couple

In this module, you’ll learn how to start working with a couple, explain the IFIO contracts for therapy, define unblending as it pertains to inner differentiation, and explain direct access to clients.

Module 3: Tracking Sequences

In this module, you’ll learn about the second basic IFIO protocol, tracking sequences of the conflict. You’ll familiarize yourself with the three components of tracking sequences, learn how to describe the process of the protocol, and discover the purpose of tracking sequences.

Module 4: Individual Work in the Presence of a Witnessing Other

In this module, you’ll learn about performing individual IFS work in the presence of a witnessing other, the importance of working with the autonomic nervous system in relationship therapy, and how to facilitate co-regulation between partners.

Module 5: Courageous Communication

In this module, you’ll learn about the importance of courageous communication—how to define it, explain the iceberg effect of communication, and describe the process for helping the speaking partner speak for parts from Self.

Module 6: Anger and Needs

In this module, you’ll learn about how unmet core emotional needs from childhood surface in the context of adult relationships. You will hear how we address this in IFIO couple therapy through leading individuals in an experience that shows how couples can safely address asking to have needs met.

What’s included:

This course includes approximately 6 hours of core teaching on the program’s main topic, along with around 7.5 hours of recorded live Q&A sessions facilitated by the instructors.

What are on-demand programs:

IFSI’s on-demand courses are recordings of some of our most loved advanced IFS programs led by IFS trainers and thought leaders who bring deep experience and insight. Learn anytime, at the pace your system needs. 

Who is it for: 

These offerings are ideal for those who are enrolled in or have completed IFS Level 1 Training, and those who have already participated in the IFS Online Circle. They’re designed to help you deepen specific skills, build confidence in niche areas, and feel more grounded in your work with clients. 

CE Credit & Certificate of Completion: 

Please note that these programs don’t offer professional CE, but each provides 14 IFS CE Credits to support your IFS certification or recertification path. An IFSI Certificate of Completion will also be available upon completion of this program.  

Note: Materials and methods included in this course may include interventions or practices that are beyond your scope of practice. As a professional in your given field, you are responsible for reviewing the scope of practice, including activities that are defined by applicable law as beyond the boundaries of your practice, and applying your learning in compliance with your professional standards.